Jesus loves us. I love Jesus. My name is Fr Matthew P. Schneider, LC SThD. I’m a priest with the Legionaries of Christ and Regnum Christi. I try to fulfill our mission of helping people know and experience Jesus, be transformed by him, and become his apostles.
In 2022, I finished my doctoral thesis in Moral Theology through Regina Apostolorum in Rome, while living in the Legionary community in the diocese of Arlington (Northern Virginia) and as Assistant Chaplain at Divine Mercy University. For the 2022-2024 school years, I teach theology and bioethics at Belmont Abbey College. I occasionally give talks on subjects I discuss here (use the contact form if you want this).
Pauline Press published my book, God Loves the Autistic Mind: Prayer Guide for Those on the Spectrum and Those Who Love Us, in June 2022. You can get it here.
I am one of the few openly autistic priests. I was diagnosed with autism after my first year of ministry when I failed to read the emotions on kids’ faces as a school chaplain. I gave a longer testimony (with video) if you are interested.
Slowly I’ve become one of the biggest Catholic voices on Twitter, with over 68,000 followers, and 100,000 across all social media combined.
I’m originally from Calgary, Canada, and have done ministry in various parts of Canada and the USA. My current base community is in the Archdiocese of Atlanta, but I live at Belmont Abbey during the school year.
I began working in youth ministry as a religious brother and wrote some of the material for the Conquest and Challenge Clubs, but in recent years I have moved away from that. Concerning youth ministry, I wrote the only book on doing 1-on-1 spiritual mentoring with teenagers called Spiritually Mentoring Teenage Boys based on my experience (90%+ of it probably applies to teen girls too, but I don’t have much experience there).
I started with this personal blog, then joined ProjectYM, then Catholic Stand, then Patheos, with a few individual articles for other pages, then eventually moved here to my personal site. If you want my article to appear in your publication, please contact me and offer me your normal going rate for freelance journalists.
My Community relies on donations, and I’d love it if you became a monthly patron on Patreon or donated on my Acceptiva page. I have chosen not to run ads here except for links to Patreon.
Along with my writing here, I have written for or appeared in over 375 other media outlets. I have another page with a more complete list, but here are some highlights:
- I have written pieces appearing in the National Catholic Register, America, Crux, Public Discourse, Homiletic & Pastoral Review, Nova et Vetera, The Journal of Disability & Religion, The National Catholic Bioethics Quarterly, Aleteia, ZENIT, ChurchPOP, Catholic Moral Theology, LifeNews.com, and NeuroClastic.
- I or my work has appeared in several EWTN shows, Catholic Answers Live, multiple Catholic radio stations, Catholic News Agency, CatholicTV, Catholic Herald, The Linacre Quarterly, The National Catholic Bioethics Quarterly, Church Life Journal, The Associated Press, National Review, Christianity Today, Slate, The Washington Post, BuzzFeed, CBS News, The Hill, CNN, Fox News, and The Guardian.
If you want to know what I look like, there isn’t much to see. Even though I’m not that photogenic, here are a few photos.
Fr. Matthew, I just learned I had a celebrity (you) co-teaching ESL with me at Christ the Redeemer. I wish you great success with your new book, and the completion of your dissertation. Christus regnat!!
I think as a priest I should spend some of my time doing acts of Christian charity. I asked Catholic Charities what might work while I was in Ashburn, and they suggested teaching ESL at CTR. I try not to do it with big fanfare.
Fr. Can you help in how to get a possible diagnosis for autism in an older adult? Most information is related to children, and is not well understood by PCP. Thank you for your sharing and help.
Yes. It is a little harder to find a psychologist willing and able to do the tests for adult autism. There are some guides about it if you look for it and I can’t recommend any particular one: you can google them. Psychology Today has a directory where you can filter for those who both see adults and have autism as one of their specialties.
EDIT: Also to add, if you email the autism society of America (https://autismsociety.org) with your zip code, they can send you local psychologists. They do no filter just for adults, so you then need to call the handful they give you.
I am a 67yr old female living in Ontario, Canada, and the psychologist who diagnosed my adult ADHD 3 years ago referred me to Kevin Reinhardt in Newmarket, ON as the only professional he knows of specializing in diagnosing ASD in adults, and he also assesses for the common ASD comorbidities of ADHD, LD’s and the gammut of PD’s.I have my 2-1/2 day full comprehensive ASD assessment scheduled for next week, and he has been amazing in this lead-up period. He is registered with Psychology Today … hopefully, this info can be of help to fellow Ontarians!
Wow. This is great news for you. We live is the US in Massachusetts. Does your provider know anyone in this area. Thank you for your input.
Father Schneider – Thank you, thank you, thank you! As an older Catholic diagnosed later in life with ASD, your book explains so much. I always blamed myself and feared going to hell because I could not relate to the emotional, even ecstatic, experiences and faith expressions of so many Catholic saints. I therefore judged myself as having no love in me for God, even though I have always known intellectually that I love Him and He loves me, as odd and imperfect as I am. Your book opened a door of hope that maybe I am OK in God’s eyes as different as I am, because I try to live a good Catholic life, even while I don’t have all those religious feelings. May God bless you!
It’s great that the book has helped you out so much. I hope you keep growing in a deeper relationship with Jesus as an autistic.
Hi, Fr. Matthew. How refreshing to have caught the last half of your appearance on EWTN’s Book program recently! It was so good to see a priest reveal his autism and to hear your story.
I am a senior citizen and was diagnosed as being on the spectrum just a few years ago. It’s such a hardship to have one’s actions and needs be misunderstood by others, especially parents and teachers.
Even though I am a loner, I still get depressed and lonely, especially at holidays when there is no place for me to go.
Best wishes and blessings!
Hello Father Schneider,
I was diagnosed at age 36 as Level 1 ASD. I am sensitive to sounds and touch. I am from Connecticut. Your YouTube videos helped me understand the dilemma I face when I pray. I would like to know how to get past this theory of mind issue when I pray and be able to do it regularly.
In my experience, churches older than the electric grid are not the best places sensory-wise. The way sounds bounce off the vaulted ceiling can cause me a lot of anxiety and make meltdowns more likely. I chose a newer church near me where I can sit in the vestibule and watch through the glass doors, which help buffer the sounds. I find it easier to hear them through the speaker system than having sounds blaring at me in the face from all directions. This makes it easier to relax as well, as I do not expect going to Mass to give me anxiety. This also allows me the space I need, though I must move when people come in or leave.
I appreciate that someone finally understands the dilemmas I face as an autistic Catholic. If you still do videos, I would like to know where they are posted. I am interested in further communication by email if you are open to it.
Crystal Golias
A good point about how sounds reverberate off different church interior structures. I am not an expert on acoustics, but I do notice how different spaces sound so can see that issue.
You are not an validly ordained Catholic Priest. The valid rite of ordination to the Priesthood was abrogated and replaced by the so – called “new” “rite” of “ordination..
You are not an Catholic Priest. You are not an religious. You are an layman. And, (and), the so – called “Novus Ordo Missi,”) or “New Order of Mass,” is diabolical and an blasphemy. Created by an Scottish Rite FreeMason, a t the direction of an Scottish Rite FreeMason (otherwise, an outrageous heretic who styled itself “Pope” John the 23rd. And promulgated by another Scottish Rite FreeMason and blasphemous heretic, who styled itself “Pope” Paul the 6th. You are not an Catholic Priest. You cannot celebrate an valid Mass. The Novus Ordo Missi is an blasphemous counterfeit. The Sacrament is not transfected.
As well, (as well), your statements concerning the so – called “vaccines,” are appalling. There is no such thing as an “vaccine.” And there is no such thing as an “virus.” And your shameless advocacy of fawning, obsequious obeisance to “Caesar,” in terms of instructing Catholics (who are no longer Catholics), to accept this “witch’s brew” of monkey kidney, egg albumen, squaline, aluminum, mercury, and “immortal” (and therefore carcinogenic), cells of aborted unborh children is utterly grotesque. God will judge you harshly. And I hope I am there to see it.
There is no virus; there has never been an virus; there are no viruses. There has never been an so – called “cold” virus; there has never been an so – called “influenza” virus; there has never been an so – called “Plague” virus, there has never been an so – called “AIDS” virus. And there has never been an so – called “Corona” virus. Either.
Keep an “open mind,” and people will throw a lot of garbage in it.
Brothers Michael and Peter Dimond are making more and more sense. All the time.;
Dermot Anthony David Kyne, bac., (hon).,maîtrise, cert. en droit., Grad. Dipl., (Marketing),
Graduate and Alumnus, St. Michael’s College School (the “school” that protects pedophiles), Class of 1981.
Montréal, Québec,
dadk/1pg,. etc.,
septembre 05, 2023
Those are words and that is an opinion. It does not seem to match reality in multiple ways, but it is an opinion.
Father, you are so generous in your humility and love for your fellow man. As a fellow Quebecer, I find this Kyne fellow’s comments not only outrageous, but absolutely abhorrent, so I will follow your lead in loving this guy through my prayer for his return to sanity. In a different vein, and again, as a fellow Quebecer – fully fluent in both French and English – I can tell you that his verbiage, semantics, grammar and spelling are most uncharacteristic of anyone from my home province – French or English-speaking – so I suspect that unless a very poor online translation app was used, the above diatribe might well be the product of a very poor AI program … all that to say, the sentiments expressed therein are not even remotely typical of any Catholic I know.